Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Maybe it's just because Brigitte is back in school. This was the time of year I really had some time to visit with my mom without any help, and we had some amazing visits. This week I have really been missing her something terrible. So here are some of her fun things she said, if you can think of others lets add them!!


1. No shit!

2. no, but I really love you!

3. Have a great day!



Talk about an amazing woman. I have nothing but love and respect for the quiet way (and not so quiet ways) she influenced me and those around her. If ever there was an example of enduring to the end she was it. Never did she complain about the pain, only about not being able to get up and move around! Her grandchildren were her pride and joy and I am so thankful my daughter had the opportunity to know and love her. Even though she couldn't move and play, Brigitte loved to visit her!! Maybe it was the captive audience! My mom always made her feel special and loved without question.

My mom and I didn't always get along, but, as I look back, I am amazed at the things she was able to accomplish from a chair. Her love for us is evident in the fact that she put for the effort to give us a really good life, and a love for each other. She made it very clear that we were lucky to have brothers and sisters and we better get along, or she would run over us.

For all she gave me and all she didn't, I will always be grateful. Mom I love you!

1 comment:

Jodi said...

Oh Candi, that was so touching. Shell was all you said and more!

One thing she ALWAYS said to me everytime I talked to her was: "love you" And the first thing she would say was ALWAYS..."How is Tyson?" I remember she did that one time when SHE was SO sick and before I even had a chance to ask her how she was she asked me first!

I am sorry you are missing her. But then again...not REALLY sorry. I think it is a good thing to miss those we love that are no longer with us because THAT keeps them close to our hearts. It is hard, but it will eventually get easier.

She was SO incredible! I miss her too...♥